The sad fact

A freind of mine asked me..dont you feel lonely  ? I thought about it and told him ,I and you are both lonely ,its just that I know it. You think you have people.who love you, just stop earning for a day and we will see how yout family reacts. 


It is the the painful conclusion that people do not love you for what you are. They love you as a transaction. Not only pthers but your own also love you if you get something to the table.

Its a really hard hitting fact that a man will never be loved as an individual,he will be loved as a transaction. sadly he will realise it too late and continue to burn himseld for people who he thinks love him.


They dont. He is useful. 



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